Brother Fallabella (I think that is how you spell his name) gave a beautiful
talk about strengthening marriage. Since I am not married and do not plan to be
for a little while, I chose to focus on how his advice can apply to the
relationships in my life currently. My favorite line from Brother Fallabella’s
talk was when he said that “It takes two people to contend, and I will never be
one of them.” That is such a powerful commitment, and one I hope to be able to
keep some day.
“Contention is of the devil.” If your
family was anything like mine this is something you probably heard frequently
while growing up. And yes it is true, but sometimes it is so hard! I know how difficult
it can be to “be the bigger person” or to choose to forgive, but I also know
that is what we are supposed to do. I am trying to honor Brother Fallabella’s
commitment, because I know that when I let contention and anger rule my life I am
miserable. Forgiving those who have offended you is so liberating and it allows
you to feel the spirit more freely. I know that choosing to be kind is always
better, because that is what Christ did.
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